Throughout recorded history, introverted guys have dreaded asking girls out. But if you think it's tough to make a romantic gesture today, you should be glad you don't live in the technologically-challenged past.Guys used to have to physically approach females and, you know, talk to them to get dates.However, that suppression will actually hinder the interaction.If your primary focus is on suppressing fear, you can’t have a normal conversation with anyone.
When overcoming my own shyness, I found that setting goals for each day helped me to grow more confident when approaching others.
This method took courage and required the guy to open himself up to rejection.
It also favored extroverted guys, leaving many shy people alone on Friday nights.
If you read the comic strip "Peanuts," you probably know about the little red-haired girl. Charlie Brown worships her from a distance -- a long distance.
The few times he gets up the nerve to approach her, something gets in the way and messes things up. A lot of guys can sympathize, some more than others.